Monday, September 10, 2012

We Are Bombarded By This Daily...



  It's early on a Saturday morning and I arrive at my local supermarket with one of my daughters (Daddy's Helper).  We walk in with our shopping list and grab a cart.  I always try to go early so the old people don't clog up the isles with scooters.  Grocery shopping for me is an organized, well planned attack with many moving parts.  I send my daughter down an isle to pick up one thing while I am getting another.  We have a game plan and go over it several times during the drive there.  The list is even written in order of the store layout and it's beautifully efficient when it all goes to plan.  My shopping motto is "if it ain't on the list, it doesn't exist." 
  Then we get to the checkout line and unload our cart.  Side note, why during busy shopping times are there only 3 cashiers at Safeway Canton?  As I am loading the conveyer belt I see my daughter staring at a tabloid with a half dressed woman and inappropriate phrases all over it.  Or there is the latest police photo of a celebrity she used to watch on Disney Channel.  I am like, Whoa, eyes front young lady.  I would say look on the other side but that is where they keep all the candy.  It's a lose, lose situation.  One or two magazines is one thing, but to have shelves and shelves of magazines that have the same junk inside is another.  Does anyone watch out for what our young children are exposed to on a daily basis?  The grocery store isn't even safe.  Our young people influenced by the people on the covers of these magazines and therefore, are exposed to over-sexualized behavior, drugs and alcohol abuse and violence.  The sad thing is, most people don't even notice.  I wasn't exposed to that stuff as a kid.  I remember my mom ripping out the underwear pages from the Sears catalog when I was compiling my Christmas list or turning off the news when a story that wasn't age appropriate was on.  Our Parents generation were more careful and conscious of what their children were exposed to.  We wonder why our society has come to this.  Also, the covergirls and guys are not accurate representations of human beings and make people feel less than great about themselves.  The images are not only offensive, but they give Americans a false sense of what's acceptable in society.
  The media obviously influences how we act, what we do and what we look like, but the way they make social problems acceptable is sickening.  I do my best to not look at any of them and actually engage my children in conversation so that they don't either.  Most parents prefer the hands-off approach to raising children but thats another blog for another time.  Look to the poop—that’s the guiding principle of the supermarket tabloid. (Vanity Fair, 2002)  
  Ultimately, they make us care about Prince Harry partying naked.  Why do I care?  I haven't or will ever buy one of these pieces of trash that line the checkout of any supermarket.  Personally, I believe it's a waste of paper.  The news conglomerates pander to the uneducated and simple minds of America.  What a sad state of affairs we are in.  



4 comments:

  1. Really really good job. LOL (inside joke Mr. Walsh). I liked how I could hear your voice in the blog, along with your sense of sarcasm. I completely agree with you. Especially the part about, "The news conglomerates pander to the uneducated and simple minds of America." And how the media influences how we behave and that it is sickening. And kudos for turning your daughter's eyes away from the Gah-bage. - Veev

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  2. I agree with you, kids shouldn't have to worry about being stick skinny, the latest fashion, whose hooking up with who. Still too young to understand any of that stuff, they shouldn't have to grow up worrying if they're going to fit in society, because they don't have a skinny enough waste or the most expensive outfits. -Kopec

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  3. We might have to end up blind folding our kids... Candy on one side and magazines of a half naked women or men on the other; Pfft. I strongly agree with you about the media influencing us and its just getting worst... AND at the end of the day the younger the easier it will be to be influence; Our Futures.

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  4. I completely agree. I notice that more and more females and males are trying to be something that isn't real(what's on those covers). Society has somehow turned us into people who can't accept eachother,or ourselves, for what we truly look like.

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